Looking for my Sub:
I live in Tulsa OK. I would prefer to find a sub near my location or willing to relocate if there is a connection.
Everything I write here is an interpretation of what I see to be a perfect relationship. It may not fit your lifestyle and it might not be right for you.
A relationship should be 50% physical and 50% emotion. By that I mean there has to be physical attraction and an emotional connection. I have made lists of what I am looking for in each group at the end of this post, as well as the qualities I am looking for in a sub.
In order for a relationship to not get boring, both people in the relationship need to try to surprise and do special things for one another. Whether that's setting up a special date, making them something, going on an adventure or another fun idea. If you keep this up then no relationship will ever seem boring to you. However, more times than not I would be the only one trying, which is one sided, tiring and not sustainable. This needs to be a two way street in order for this to work.
Communication is huge in any relationship. Talking isn't about proving you're right or that the other person is wrong, but rather to understand and possibly come to a solution. Also if you think holding in something that bothers you will make your partner happy, then you're quite mistaken. The second you hold something in, no matter how small, is the second that you start the timer of the bomb that's going to explode in a few days, weeks, months or even years. Trust me when I say this, no matter what negative reaction you think will happen, it is always better to be honest and clear. If something is bothering you, then just say it. It's better for both people.
Finding the perfect someone is one of the hardest things you can do in your lifetime. You're allowed to take your time and find the perfect one.
For an emotional connection I am looking for a sub with some/all of these qualities:
* Nerdy
* Likes to try new things
* Likes to travel
* Likes to trash talk and joke around
* Likes building blanket forts
* Likes throwing water balloons
* Is honest
* Is loyal
* Is healthy
* Likes to travel
* Is Bi (or even lesbian)
* Doesn't get jealous
* Likes playing with other girls and likes me playing with girls
* Is a hard worker
* Is a good human being
* Doesn't drink or do drugs
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it's not necessary to have all.
Here are some things that I find attractive:
* Woman who are not overweight or underweight.
* Woman who are in shape.
* Big ass
* Tattoos
* Piercings
* Flat stomach or Abs
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it's not necessary to have all.
What I am looking for in a sub:
* Is a masochist
* Likes being teased
* Wants to give up full control (After building trust of course)
* Enjoys role playing
* Is fine with sharing. (Is either sadistic to other woman or submissive)
* Is a slave/babygirl
* Likes toys
* Wakes me up with a morning deepthroat
* Wants to improve
My perfect sub would have some of these attributes however it's not necessary to have all.
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